Pregame
Speech (October 2004)Thoughts, stories, examples
and ideas on challenging your team to perform at their highest level possible. DON'T
DESPAIR....COACHING IS THE GREATEST PROFESSION ON THE PLANET! Some
thoughts from legendary coach Bud Presley. "Kids
see through a phony in 2 seconds. They want somebody to set limits for them. They
are crying for somebody to make them physically and mentally as good as they can
be. They want somebody to make them work hard. They want somebody to teach them
the glory and thrill of an all out effort. But if you are going to be demanding
and get those kids to die for you out there, you better hug them off the floor,
you'd better be concerned about their lives and you better give them love. Coaching
can be discouraging at times, but it's far more rewarding and deeply satisfying.
Kids are naive, they are variable, they are sometimes obstinate and incomprehensible.
But they are also warm, flexible, loyal and incurably optimistic. They lift us
up when we are down, they deify us when we and all are peers know we have feet
of clay (full of sh*&%!), and they constantly reaffirm our faith in the innate
goodness of man. No matter how much we give of ourselves to our kids, we can never
match by half what they give us in return. We
tend to belly ache and despair at times. Some of us are petty and belittle our
fellow coaches and all of us by necessity are a little insane. But we should count
our blessings because we are in the coaching profession and are the most fortunate
people on the face of the earth." THOUGHTS
FOR THE MONTH
Quotes from Yanni's book, "My
father once said, 'If the whole world wants to go left and you feel like going
right, go right. You don't have to follow. You don't have to make a big deal about
which way you're going. Just go. It's very easy'." "The
less you want, the richer you are. The more you need in order to be happy, the
more miserable you'll be." "My
father taught me that one of the most important abilities in life is to be able
to take the pain and persevere, and for years this lesson had served me well."
"It's only
by living that you grow old." Yanni's Mom "The
most important battle is one to conquer yourself." "I
don't want problems solved for me. I want the fishing rod, not the fish."
"You need
a mind open to possibility, conditioned to love the creative spirit we all have
inside ourselves." "Whether
a person is spiritual or not, we all seek to get away from the stress, anger,
and anxiety of everyday life. Some people drink, do drugs, or do worse to escape,
and they hurt themselves in the process. Some people listen to music, mine included,
and feel better." "I
don't dwell in the past; I don't wallow in old events and emotions. I don't waste
time on regret. No use going over and over the details of what already happened."
"You do
good work for a long-enough time, I believed, and you'd get noticed." "I
believe we're responsible for everything that happens to us." "No
matter what happens in life, never lose sight of who you are."
POEMS
FOR THE MONTH Truths For Living By William Arthur Ward The
more generous we are, the more joyous we become. The
more cooperative we are, the more valuable we become. The
more enthusiastic we are, the more productive we become. The
more serving we are, the more prosperous we become. The
more outgoing we are, the more helpful we become. The
more curious we are, the more creative we become. The
more patient we are, the more understanding we become. The
more persistent we are, the more successful we become. Believe
while others
. By William Arthur Ward Believe
while others are doubting. Plan
while others are playing. Study
while others are sleeping. Decide
while others are delaying. Prepare
while others are daydreaming. Begin
while others are procrastinating. Work
while others are wishing. Save
while others are wasting. Listen
while others are talking. Smile
while others are frowning. Commend
while others are criticizing. Persist
while others are quitting. |