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Me (September 2009)True stories, quotes and information
on inspiration, leadership and kindness to provide hope and direction in your
life.
Ducks
Quack - Eagles Soar No
one can make you serve customers well....that's because great service is a choice. Harvey
Mackay, tells a wonderful story about a cab driver that proved this point. He
was waiting in line for a ride at the airport. When a cab pulled up, the first
thing Harvey noticed was that the taxi was polished to a bright shine. Smartly
dressed in a white shirt, black tie, and freshly pressed black slacks, the cab
driver jumped out and rounded the car to open the back passenger door for Harvey
. He handed my
friend a laminated card and said: 'I'm Wally, your driver. While I'm loading your
bags in the trunk I'd like you to read my mission statement.' Taken
aback, Harvey read the card. It said: Wally's Mission Statement: To get my customers
to their destination in the quickest, safest and cheapest way possible in a friendly
environment.... This
blew Harvey away. Especially when he noticed that the inside of the cab matched
the outside. Spotlessly clean! As
he slid behind the wheel, Wally said, 'Would you like a cup of coffee? I have
a thermos of regular and one of decaf.' My friend said jokingly, 'No, I'd prefer
a soft drink.' Wally smiled and said, 'No problem. I have a cooler up front with
regular and Diet Coke, water and orange juice.' Almost stuttering, Harvey said,
'I 'll take a Diet Coke.' Handing
him his drink, Wally said, 'If you'd like something to read, I have The Wall Street
Journal, Time, Sports Illustrated and USA Today..' As
they were pulling away, Wally handed my friend another laminated card, 'These
are the stations I get and the music they play, if you'd like to listen to the
radio.' And as
if that weren't enough, Wally told Harvey that he had the air conditioning on
and asked if the temperature was comfortable for him. Then he advised Harvey of
the best route to his destination for that time of day. He also let him know that
he'd be happy to chat and tell him about some of the sights or, if Harvey preferred,
to leave him with his own thoughts... 'Tell
me, Wally,' my amazed friend asked the driver, 'have you always served customers
like this?' Wally
smiled into the rear view mirror. 'No, not always. In fact, it's only been in
the last two years. My first five years driving, I spent most of my time complaining
like all the rest of the cabbies do. Then I heard the personal growth guru, Wayne
Dyer, on the radio one day. He
had just written a book called "You'll See It When You Believe It".
Dyer said that if you get up in the morning expecting to have a bad day, you'll
rarely disappoint yourself. He said, 'Stop complaining! Differentiate yourself
from your competition. Don't be a duck. Be an eagle. Ducks quack and complain.
Eagles soar above the crowd.' 'That
hit me right between the eyes,' said Wally. 'Dyer was really talking about me.
I was always quacking and complaining, so I decided to change my attitude and
become an eagle. I looked around at the other cabs and their drivers. The cabs
were dirty, the drivers were unfriendly, and the customers were unhappy. So I
decided to make some changes. I put in a few at a time. When my customers responded
well, I did more.' 'I
take it that has paid off for you,' Harvey said. 'It
sure has,' Wally replied. 'My first year as an eagle, I doubled my income from
the previous year. This year I'll probably quadruple it. You were lucky to get
me today. I don't sit at cabstands anymore. My customers call me for appointments
on my cell phone or leave a message on my answering machine. If I can't pick them
up myself, I get a reliable cabbie friend to do it and I take a piece of the action.' Wally
was phenomenal. He was running a limo service out of a Yellow Cab. I've probably
told that story to more than fifty cab drivers over the years, and only two took
the idea and ran with it. Whenever I go to their cities, I give the m a call.
The rest of the drivers quacked like ducks and told me all the reasons they couldn't
do any of what I was suggesting. Wally
the Cab Driver made a different choice. He decided to stop quacking like ducks
and start soaring like eagles. How
about us? Smile, and the whole world smiles with you.... The ball is in our hands! A
man reaps what he sows. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper
time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up... let us do good to all people. Ducks
Quack, Eagles Soar. Have
a nice day, unless you already have other plans.
Two
Choices
What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a
punch line, there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have
made the same choice? At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children
with learning disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech
that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school
and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:
'When not interfered with
by outside influences, everything nature does, is done with perfection.
Yet
my son, clay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things
as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?'
The
audience was stilled by the query.
The father continued. 'I believe that
when a child like Clay, who was mentally and physically disabled comes into the
world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes
in the way other people treat that child.'
Then he told the following story:
Clay
and I had walked past a park where some boys Clay knew were playing baseball.
Clay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' I knew that most of the boys
would not want someone like Clay on their team, but as a father I also understood
that if my son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of
belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.
I
approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Clay
could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing by six
runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll
try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.'
Clay struggled over to the
team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. I watched with a small
tear in my eye and warmth in my heart. The boys saw my joy at my son being accepted. In
the bottom of the eighth inning, Clay's team scored a few runs but was still behind
by three.
In the top of the ninth inning, Clay put on a glove and played
in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic
just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as I waved to
him from the stands.
In the bottom of the ninth inning, Clay's team scored
again.
Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run
was on base and Clay was scheduled to be next at bat.
At this juncture,
do they let Clay bat and give away their chance to win the game?
Surprisingly,
Clay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because
Clay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with
the ball.
However, as Clay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing
that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Clay's life,
moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Clay could at least make contact.
The
first pitch came and Clay swung clumsily and missed..
The pitcher again
took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Clay. As the pitch came
in, Clay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.
The game would now be over.
The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and
could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Clay would have been out
and that would have been the end of the game. Instead, the pitcher threw the ball
right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates.
Everyone
from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Clay, run to first Run to first!
'Never in his life had Clay ever run that far, but he made it to first base.
He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled. Everyone yelled, 'Run
to second, run to second! 'Catching his breath, Clay awkwardly ran towards second,
gleaming and struggling to make it to the base. By the time Clay rounded towards
second base, the right fielder had the ball. The smallest guy on their team who
now had his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the
ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions
so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's
head. Clay
ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases
toward home. All were screaming, 'Clay, Clay, Clay, all the Way Clay'. Clay reached
third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the
direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third! Clay,
run to third!' As Clay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators,
were on their feet screaming, 'Clay, run home! Run home!' Clay
ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand
slam and won the game for his team.
'That day', said the father softly
with tears now rolling down his face, 'the boys from both teams helped bring a
piece of true love and humanity into this world'.
Clay didn't make it to
another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and
making me so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her
little hero of the day!
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